Legacy · 5 min read
A love letter you write in advance.
The conversation that does more good than people expect, and the binder no one knows how to build. A primer on getting your affairs in order on your own terms — for yourself, or alongside an aging parent.
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Divorce · 8 min read
How to live in a house that used to be ours.
A practical protocol for resetting a home after a partner moves out. Energetic, organizational, design. The order matters more than people realize.
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The Reset · 4 min read
Five signs your system is failing you — not the other way around.
You tidy the same surfaces every week. You feel shame, not relief, walking in the door. You stopped having people over. The drawers know more about your life than you do. Save this for later.
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Loss · 6 min read
What we keep when we lose someone.
On the difference between holding on and being held. A meditation on which objects to keep, and the question I ask before every one.
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Empty Nest · 5 min read
A binder is a love letter you write in advance.
One of the kindest things you can do for the people who'll come after you isn't a physical heirloom. It's a folder they can find.
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