Divorce & Separation · 03

For the partner staying, the one moving out, or both.

I work neutrally and consider every side of a separation — splitting the household, resetting the home, building parallel systems for the kids, separating shared digital accounts.

I've lived this, and I understand what it asks of you. My own divorce came after twenty years of marriage, moves between five houses and two countries, with kids watching how I handled everything. I know what it takes to make a home feel like just yours, and I know how challenging it is to do it alone, without someone in the room who's done it before.

The work here is intentionally non-partisan. I serve the partner keeping the house, the partner moving out, or both — sometimes in coordinated parallel engagements. I'm not a mediator and not a therapist; I'm the person who handles the practical, hands-on, considered work that sits between every other professional in a separation.

Best fit:

Any moment in or after a separation where the home needs to change and you don't have the energy to figure it out alone. Could be the week after the divorce papers are filed, or eighteen months after, when you've realized the house still feels like both of yours.

How clients usually start:

Most divorce clients come to The Reclaim. A smaller number engage The Divide while the household is still being split. Two Homes, One Childhood is for the co-parenting phase that follows.

The packages.

The Reclaim

For the partner keeping the house. I remove the other partner's imprint, reconfigure the rooms they used, and rebuild the home as a space that belongs to you alone.

  • 4 days on-site
  • Includes design consultation
  • Optional 6-week follow-up
$4,200–$4,800

The Divide

Neutral-party coordination of splitting a shared household. Inventory, photos, decisions, movers, donations. I protect the relationship from the objects.

  • 2–3 days
  • Both partners present, or rotating
$2,800–$3,800

Two Homes, One Childhood

Identical organizational systems set up in both co-parent households so the kids move without chaos. Shared digital calendar and document vault included.

  • 2 days
  • Both houses scoped together
$2,400–$3,200

Digital Unjoining

The surgical version. Separating shared iCloud, photo libraries, streaming, passwords, bill-pay. Done in coordination, or remotely for one side only.

  • Remote, 2 weeks
  • Threshold Digital
$1,200–$1,800
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A 30-minute conversation.
No commitment.

Tell me where you are in the process. I'll recommend the right starting point — even if it's not me.

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